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PHall | September 21, 2012
Being violated, whether sexually, physically, emotionally or verbally can lead to the temptation of repeating the cycle within your own family. Joseph had two sons. We do not know much about them, but when it is time for them to be blessed by their grandfather before he dies, Joseph follows tradition, firstborn first. When Jacob […]
PHall | September 20, 2012
PHall | September 19, 2012
PHall | September 19, 2012
PHall | September 18, 2012
Being broken by the sins of others leads to other forms of brokenness; such as giving in to the temptation of covering our pain or emptiness with emotional or chemical painkillers. Boys and girls, young men and women, become promiscuous because their sexuality became awaken through sexual abuse. They confuse sex with love. Addicts dull […]
PHall | September 18, 2012
PHall | September 17, 2012
Tenth, being transgressed against we can be tempted to lie to ourselves that it never happened. We conclude along with Proverbs 19.11 that it is our prerogative and is virtuous to overlook an offense. But that means admitting it happened. For some acts we just say, “It’s OK” when it’s not. “The first step in […]
PHall | September 16, 2012
Being sinned against can be so traumatizing and frightening that I believe God has created a self-defense mechanism. Many victims of sexual abuse block the memories. In time, when God believes we are ready, He allows the memories to surface through dreams and vague memories. The temptation is to continually tamp down the memories, to […]
PHall | September 14, 2012
Being hurt brings the temptation of putting ourselves into the place of God, by taking revenge. This is another form of not forgiving. While we can be passive in our unforgiving, we can also be dangerously and sinfully active. Turning the other cheek can only happen after being sinned against (Mt 5.38-39). Being hurt suggests […]
PHall | September 13, 2012
Being broken breaks our relationships with those who have not hurt us, even though they are innocent. The betrayal of a friendship leads to pain. The discovery that a friendship is just a façade leads to doubt. Either damages friendship building and future friendships. Joseph’s brothers could not speak kindly to him after seeing their […]